Arguing Over Who's More Special To The Other

After a few weeks away and a nice break away from (A) & (B), and my discontent working out at the Ocoee LA Fitness*See older post, I was just about getting ready to return to their presence and back to the Winter Garden LA Fitness. Till...last night (A) and I got into a heated and absolute petty argument. Generally about who was more special to the other, proving to each other the value and worth to each other, and unfortunately ending the argument with personal attacks of what the other hasn't done for the other. It was hurtful...for the both of us I know. Also I knew I've been constantly butchering her with the question of how much I matter to her as a friend for so many times in our past conversations, and finally last night she a took stab and counterattacked with what I haven't done for her and the question of how much she mattered to me. I know she just about had it with me on this topic and made the jab at me for it. She even pulled the Birthday "card" on me, that I didn't say or do anything for her Birthday, and I just return fired that she didn't either(when it really hurt me that she didn't, and I didn't say anything). Honestly this whole argument last night was just petty in general. I'm not just pointing my finger at her, its also me as well. The whole thing was just noise. Ughhh. I'm sorry (A). I still care and love you.